Light the fire in the fire pit or the candles (the candles should be a mellow color, like a color that calms you down like yellow or orange. Sit in front of the fire but not to close about 1-2 meters away. I you use candles set them down on the ground looking like the 5 points of a star.
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Sit yourself in the middle of the candles. Cross your legs and close your eyes feel the fire on tour face hear it and take a long breath. Think (eyes still closed) how would the fire feel (beware of your actions though you might actually reach out and your don't want that to happen). Think how much the the fire is alive and how you and it are bound together that you are the fire! Then feel the fire again on your face (eyes are still closed!) feel the heat on your face take another long but slow breath. You are now in connection with the fire. Open your eyes and say:
I am the fire that glows bright,
The fire that is in me,
Fire is now connected with my soul,
For fire is one of my bound partners,
I am the fire that gives us light,
I am the one that glows a bright light.
~ Warning in a pit fire make sure there is not to much fire because to much fire is a danger to nature ~